Fieldletter #24: Why Discipline Isn’t the Answer: How Nomads Find Focus by Clearing Noise in 2025


You’ve tried it all—cold showers, 5 a.m. wake-ups, productivity apps, and endless to-do lists—hoping to master discipline and finally “get it together.” But what if the problem isn’t your willpower? For Indy and Kitty, founders of Nomadists, traveling the world in a 2019 Sprinter van with seven kids and a pitbull revealed a deeper truth: you don’t need more discipline—you need less noise. Mental clutter, digital distractions, and emotional stress sabotage your focus far more than a lack of grit. By cutting the chaos, they found clarity, presence, and effortless habits without forcing themselves into rigid routines. This guide explores why discipline fails, how clearing noise transforms nomadic life, and practical steps to unlock focus for work, travel, and family in 2025.

The Discipline Myth

Discipline is everywhere—glorified in viral videos of early risers, fitness challenges, and “grind harder” mantras. Indy and Kitty fell for it early in their nomadic journey, blaming themselves when they couldn’t stick to routines, finish projects, or stay focused. They piled on more planners, apps, and guilt, but the result was burnout, not progress.

The myth says you’re the problem: not tough enough, not organized enough. But for nomads, juggling work, travel, and family in a world that’s always on, the real issue is noise—mental chatter, digital pings, and constant stress. In 2025, with over 35 million digital nomads worldwide, chasing discipline without addressing noise is like trying to focus in a storm. It’s exhausting and futile.

Noise: The Silent Saboteur

Noise isn’t just loud sounds—it’s the overstimulation that drowns out clarity. For nomads, it creeps in as:

  • Mental Clutter: Overthinking tasks, worrying about the future, or comparing yourself to others’ perfect Instagram lives.
  • Digital Distractions: Endless notifications, social media scrolls, or a dozen open browser tabs.
  • Emotional Weight: Decision fatigue from planning routes, fixing van issues, or parenting on the move.
  • Constant Demands: Emails, client calls, or the pressure to keep up with a “productive” life.

Indy and Kitty felt this acutely. They couldn’t focus and blamed their habits. They felt scattered and questioned their resolve. But the problem wasn’t them—it was the noise of modern life clouding their ability to think and act clearly.

The Power of Clearing Noise

When Indy and Kitty hit the road and unplugged from the chaos, something shifted. They didn’t need elaborate morning rituals or motivation hacks. By creating space for silence and simplicity, their habits—work, parenting, travel—improved naturally. They weren’t tougher; they just had less to push against.

This clarity reshaped their life in the Nomadists Van:

  • Work: Running Outrnr and recording the Nomadists Podcast became smoother with focused time, not forced multitasking.
  • Family: Mornings free of notifications deepened bonds through simple check-ins like “What was your favorite part of today?”
  • Travel: Streamlined systems, like their van’s MOLLE storage, cut decision fatigue, leaving energy for desert hikes or city adventures.

The lesson? Focus flows from clarity, and clarity comes from quiet. For nomads, reducing noise is the key to aligning life’s moving parts without burning out.

A Nomad’s Story of Clarity

Indy and Kitty aren’t alone. Jake, a freelance developer in Nomadists community, struggled with discipline until he tackled noise. “I was juggling code, emails, and X posts all day, feeling like I was failing,” he shared. “Then I silenced notifications, cut podcasts, and blocked mornings for deep work. I’m not grinding harder—I’m just clearer.” His shift, echoed across the nomad community, shows that reducing noise works for anyone seeking focus.

How the Nomadists Stay Quiet

Indy and Kitty design their life to keep noise low, a practical approach honed through family nomadism. Their strategies are simple but powerful:

  • Phones Off Until Breakfast: Starting the day without screens creates space for reflection or family time.
  • Minimal Notifications: Only direct messages get through, silencing digital chatter.
  • Curated Inputs: They limit podcasts, newsletters, and social media to avoid overload.
  • Simple Systems: Tools like Notion for planning or their van’s MOLLE organizers adapt to chaotic schedules.
  • Open Time: Daily unscheduled blocks allow for rest, creativity, or kid-led moments.

They’ve also let go of:

  • Forcing creativity when mentally drained.
  • Pretending to multitask effectively.
  • Reacting to every email or ping.
  • Adding new tasks without pruning old ones.
  • Judging themselves for needing rest.

It’s not about perfection—it’s about margin. By saying no more often and honoring their energy, they’ve made focus feel natural.

Why Clearing Noise Matters in 2025

Nomads face constant disruptions—spotty Wi-Fi, new time zones, or unexpected van repairs—that amplify noise. In 2025, as remote work fuels nomad growth, clarity is essential to:

  • Sharpen Focus: Fewer distractions mean deeper work, whether freelancing or building a platform like Outrnr.
  • Strengthen Family Ties: Quiet moments create space for connection, crucial for nomadic parents like Indy and Kitty.
  • Sustain Nomadism: Simplicity prevents burnout, making the lifestyle viable for years.
  • Adapt to Chaos: Streamlined systems flex with travel’s unpredictability, from urban camps to remote trails.

This philosophy powers Nomadists’ Outrnr platform, which connects adventurers to basecamps designed for focus or rest. It’s proof that a quieter life unlocks freedom.

How to Clear Noise for a Focused Life

You don’t need to live in a van to reduce noise—just a willingness to simplify. These steps, inspired by Indy and Kitty, work for nomads, remote workers, or anyone craving clarity:

  1. Spot Your Noise:
    Reflect on what’s stealing your focus:
    • Digital: Notifications, social media, or too many apps?
    • Mental: Overthinking or comparison?
    • Emotional: Stress from decisions or expectations?
      Write down your top noise sources.
  2. Slash Inputs:
    Cut distractions in half:
    • Silence non-essential notifications.
    • Unsubscribe from newsletters or limit social media to 30 minutes daily.
    • Stick to one or two trusted podcasts or news sources.
  3. Streamline Systems:
    Simplify routines to reduce effort:
    • Use one tool (e.g., Notion) for tasks, not a patchwork of apps.
    • Organize gear (like MOLLE systems for nomads) to save mental energy.
    • Block unscheduled time daily for flexibility.
  4. Guard Quiet Moments:
    Create space for clarity:
    • Skip screens for the first hour of the day.
    • Set aside 30 minutes daily for a walk, journaling, or silence.
    • Try “no tech” family evenings with games or storytelling.
  5. Say No Boldly:
    Drop low-value tasks or commitments. Let go of complex systems, like overbuilt trackers, that weigh you down.
  6. Start Small:
    Pick one noisy area—work, home, or personal—and make one change. Silence email alerts, skip a podcast, or block a morning for focus. Small steps lead to big clarity.

Example: A nomad freelancer might mute social media notifications, track tasks in Notion, and reserve mornings for client work. A parent at home could limit news to once daily, start “no tech” dinners, and journal weekly to clear mental clutter.

Resources to Stay Focused

  • Nomadists Fieldletter: Get weekly tips on clarity and nomad life at nomadists.com/fieldletter.
  • Outrnr Platform: Find basecamps for focused work or rest at outrnr.com.
  • Nomadists Podcast: Episodes like “Building Our Nomadists Van” share insights on simplicity (listen here).
  • Events: Meet Indy and Kitty at Overland Expo West, May 17–19, 2025, in Flagstaff, AZ, for live Nomadists Podcast talks.
  • Tools: Try Notion for simple planning, Freedom to block distractions, or Headspace for mindfulness.

Why 2025 Is Your Year for Clarity

As nomadism grows, the noise of modern life—digital, mental, emotional—threatens the freedom you’re chasing. The remote work boom has left many overwhelmed, mistaking clutter for a lack of discipline. In 2025, clarity is the path to thriving, whether you’re a family like the Nomadists, balancing kids and adventure, or a solo nomad seeking focus. Clearing noise isn’t a quick fix—it’s a way to live intentionally, with space for what matters.

Your First Step to a Clearer Life

You’re not failing at discipline—you’re overwhelmed by noise. Ask: What’s clouding my focus today? Make one change: mute notifications, carve out a quiet hour, or join Nomadists’ Fieldletter for weekly inspiration. Check out Outrnr for basecamps that spark clarity, or meet Indy and Kitty at Overland Expo West 2025. Your future self doesn’t need a stricter routine—just a quieter path. Start in 2025 and rediscover the freedom of a focused life.

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